ray bradbury was right: "September. In the last days when things are getting sad for no reason" etc
I am not meant for casual. I was born for soul crushing devotion.
anyone else grieving & mourning & lamenting & kicked apart by nostalgia & going silently about their lives?
Is a dealbreaker if your love interest smokes cigarettes / weed or drinks?
Yes (all)
No (all)
Yes / No (explain in the tags)
See Resultsobv if you’re in a relationship that tires you out or makes you struggle to see eye to eye then that’s a problem, but the idea that good/healthy relationships don’t demand anything of you is… not true? lol. when people say relationships require hard work, they mean that love involves care and attention and patience, practices that in the long term are sustained by effort and initiative. ofc that doesn’t mean it should be a difficult effort to make, at least not all the time, but it does mean that loving someone has its ups and downs and you need to be able to negotiate that bc you’re human. love is labour, but it’s the kind of labour that makes the effort meaningful
“I feel very small. I don't understand. I have so much courage, fire, energy, for many things, yet I get so hurt, so wounded by small things.”
Anaïs Nin, from nearer the moon: the previously unpublished unexpurgated diary,1937-1939












